The very foundation of a good relationship is to respect others. To make them feel important. To not impose our superiority on them, to not impose our personality, to not impose our opinions, our likes, our dislikes on others.
There is no perfect age to get married but there are perfect secrets that make a relationship happy and meaningful. In today’s world of hookups, true love has lost its way. Let’s hear a really to talks by a girl by her words;
When I was 23 and all my family members are forcing me to get married. The boys I met didn’t resonate with me. I want to show the profiles of two more boys that my mother has sent me and agreed to meet them. To be honest with no hopes.
The first one was said I am an investment banker and I am into investing for the last 6 years now and I could tell you, it has never been an easy task. But dealing with money was never won and if I am not wrong, you are into teaching right? ‘Yes,’ it was my reply.
Then she had said. I wish I was one plenty of government holidays, free evening. What more could one want? But yeah, I love my job. I keep myself busy with it. Then I said hmm…. That’s great! Well, teaching isn’t as easy either. Don’t you think it requires a lot of effort to train young minds in the right way? Then he lives reply, of course, I do understand that. But dealing with the morning, according to me is a far more difficult job. So much of responsibility and a high amount of those involved.
My friend has been a great support. Even her message and forwards would solve half of my problems and that night is well she sent me;-
The very foundation of a good relationship is to respect others. To make them feel important. To not impose our superiority on them, to not impose our personality, to not impose our opinions, our likes, our dislikes on others. Which is the way I say when I speak to those who impose themselves on me, I get a feeling that they are important? But when I speak to those who truly love me, I get a feeling that I am important.
And when I met the second one:-
I: I am so sorry I am late.
He: It’s ok. No problem. So how’s your day been so far?
I: Umm, it’s been great! I have been looking forward to this meeting. So you are a filmmaker, right?
He: Oh yes, and you are a teacher I suppose.
I: Yeah, pretty please cliched nah
He: No, not at all Actually it is cool. You should be proud. Teaching is a profession in which teachers all other professions and good teachers are the only hope for a better tomorrow.
I: Do you mean it or you are just saying it to interest me?
He: I mean it. I could say so much more but sometimes you just put all your feelings and let it flow.
Me: That is nice!
After meeting that guy I confirmed a relationship is not about you or me. It is about us. Where both individuals accept each other, respect each Other, serve each Other, make each Other feel important. Isn’t said that when I am replaced by we, illness becomes wellness.
And this is how we met. Yes, indeed a good relationship is about giving importance to one another and understanding each other. Isn’t that an amazing secret of life?